Not shading but some of these fansign gurlies look really pretty from the back with their silky hair and floral blouses but their faces are average, they just know how to decorate themselves unlike gg male fans who completely let themselves go.
From being in kpop for awhile most of these fan daters happen with smaller nugu groups because they have a lot of spare time in between comebacks and need ego boosts to make themselves feel relevant because their group isn't giving that dopamine. As for one night stands with fans tbh I feel like a few bad apples and wattpad y/n scenarios ruined the image of bgs because most aren't stupid to risk years of hard work for one night of pleasure and you really need a certain kink to sleep around like that, usually again goes back to ego because they know they're an idol and they know how easily their fans will drop to their knees to sleep with them and that feeds into their narcissistic ego and also some power trip kink too. Like it really takes a special breed that needs constant ego boost and abuses their power to do those stuff.
But like another anon mentioned below, bg are human as well so ofc they want to love and date but I feel like dating their peers is more common since both sides are in the same industry and will face the same risk and understand each other schedules, and dating fans is last resort unless you really desperate and lonely and sleeping with fans is even less likely and as I said needs a special kind of breed to do that kinda stuff.
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2024-09-27 00:37:57Well yea that's because of the maintenance standard it's darn high for bg fans but lmao yea bigger idols almost never date fans fellow idols is also not as common as one would think it's almost always someone that's within their realm of work and whatever personal life they kept intact. And yea that's what I meant initially it takes a certain type to frequent that and I just don't see any of that with the group and exactly they're still human and men sure something could go down but I don't see it being anything bad outside of regular boy band tour rushes and even then that's still not likely or anything there's risks. Pretty much in general it's hard to date or sleep w fans and if it's not it's a personality thing for that idol